Happy Birthday to us!

The Island of Pain blog has turned one year old, and I was so caught up in doing...


Show me some more collars

Collar from Rings of Steel As I have written before – Collars are, to me...


Better late than never, Kandinsky Beaumont

Things have been busy here, so it has taken me a while to do a response to...


Beautiful Collars for everyday use

Eternity collar Collars are often used in a BDSM context and some people use...


A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but...


Regarding Ageplay or facts are always good

Nothing creates stronger reactions than the word ageplay – Which is too...


How should a dominant behave towards unowned and owned submissives?

Our discussion group has been revived and it was invigorating to see that people...


In For Life is picking up....

By the end of may in 2008 I finished up on building the In For Life sim in...


A new year and new areas

The first month of the year has almost passed and there haven’t been too...


Importance of aftercare

Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity....


Happy New Year - How has your BDSM year been?

I have always found it to be a good exercise to look at things in retrospect, so...


The importance of boundaries

I always tell people how important it is to have a boundary discussion before...


Todays post is silly

It is even all lovey dovey and puttig nuttig. I just want to say that I feel a...


Diana Allandale aka Diana Hunter has a Christmas Sale

BDSM author Diana Hunter a.k.a Diana Allandale in Second Life has a wholesale on...


Island of Pain Council has been formed

It has been a while since we had some Second Life BDSM post, so now it is about...


Be careful what you wish for...

So, I have been exploring the switch side of me and in that exploration I found...


Short on inspiration again...

..or the things I have to say is too big to write about… But yesterday...


The greater good of BDSM

So, why do we all bother with all this work, pain and confusion? The answer is...