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Journal Entry #5 – Keep Your Attention on the Cock

On February 12, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Contextualizing is important, it’s a way to understand and relate to what you actually experienced. Little is in the middle of it right now and hasn’t really landed yet from my perspective.

Let me do a chronological recap first as this post jacks into the two prior posts that Little has written during the past [...]

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And So The Journal Begins…

On January 23, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I had a interesting conversation with “someone” a couple a days ago and realised something really important.

When I write my posts they are mostly about my opinions on certain matters or BDSM news etc. It’s been quite while since I actually wrote about my feelings in relation to BDSM sessions, play or “someone” that [...]

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Dominance 101 – Dominance Explained With The Help of A Classroom Metaphor

On January 10, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Sometimes I get people asking me how they can become a good Dominant. There is no easy answer to that question because there so many ways to exercise Dominance and it is all about how you want to be as a Dominant.

Take a look at this video and exchange the words teacher with Dominant [...]

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Topping from the Bottom: One Submissive’s Thoughts

On March 17, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Preface: I wrote the following in considering how to discuss with a friend how in the world I could ever have offered submission, as I did, to Dominants who were not as educated or aware or BDSM savvy (to the extent that I am or was) as I was. Or how, yep, I HAVE topped [...]

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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 4: Tools for Roleplaying

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Combining our tools for good RP. Emotes, in-world furniture, toys, environment, power, control, understanding others. Interpreting profiles. Understanding RP etiquette. Reading and understanding sim rules.

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: Force Silverspar. FREE, tips encouraged.

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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 3: Roleplaying cont.

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

More on Roleplaying. Using the environment, Godmoding, Metagaming, grammar, spelling and punctuation,Third/First person. Differences between living out short scenes and long story lines. Language issues. Setting up a scene. Generic language V role specific language.

 

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: Force Silverspar. FREE, tips encouraged. 
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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 2: Roleplaying

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Roleplaying. What is roleplaying. What is sexual roleplaying (cybering). Identifying and creating the role you want to play. Basic rules of roleplaying with other people. Safety including emotional risks. IC & OOC. Recap of lesson 1 and demonstration of a short interaction.

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: [...]
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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 1: Emoting

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

An introduction to ROlePlay for Everyone: Session 1: Emoting. What is emoting. Using the prompt. Extending emoting into possessive pronouns and adding speech. Using descriptions. Using adjectives. Using your senses. Actions, thoughts and feelings. Pros and cons of emoting HUDs, cue cards and pre-written text. Lots of interaction and practice from attendees.

Location: Island of [...]

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The Construction of a BDSM scene – Prelude

On August 1, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

This is the second part in my breakdown of a BDSM scene. The first part which I wrote a while back was about the preparations that I carry out prior to a scene. One of the main preparations was to create a series of test, [...]

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The Construction of a BDSM scene – Preparations

On May 13, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

I will do a series of posts in an effort to break down the basics of a BDSM scene. These posts will reflect the dominant role in a BDSM scene and how the scene is constructed around that role.

The first part of a scene is the preparation.

One step that is usually mentioned is boundary [...]

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The journey is the goal

On March 26, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

This is the dominant response to CAT’s post about stress and I will take a point of origin in something that is often referred to as learning by experience.

CAT, my lovely submissive, you can not learn certain things without having to experience them yourself. Love is actually a pretty good example. You have read [...]

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