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What Does True Submission Mean?

On October 25, 2011 By Adilliana

A while ago Master Stoltz asked me a question – what does true submission mean to you?

It is a concept at the core of the BDSM community as it is asking for a definition of the essence of submission. It’s tricky and complex as it’s something that is [...]

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Visual Week – Submission

On March 22, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Picture of the Week

On June 20, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Is the female in the lower position on the floor being wrestled into submission before being exposed? Is the other female not pleased with her behaviour while trying to teach her a lesson by pulling her panties off? I’m a mere observer as this scenario unfolds in front of my eyes and the two [...]

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Strict Dominance and Submissive Training

On June 13, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Training the will of the submissive requires strict dominance, which this video clearly shows. The exercises shown are good for posture training and general politeness. Nothing is more beautiful than a submissive that can behave accordingly in a specific context.

 

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Picture of the Week

On May 2, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Being a submissive is a delicate dance as every move is planned and carefully choreographed by your Dominant, every step taken is a fragile move which exposes your inner core.

The dance is restrained by the bondage imposed on you in order to tune your repertoire to perfection, a perfection that [...]

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Power of Submission Videos

On April 24, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

The concept of submission is to some people a provocative concept. It becomes even more provocative is you talk about submission in a context that is outside the sphere of BDSM.

Shanel Cooper has done two interesting video posts about submission in ordinary relationships and how it can empower women. I find these post very [...]

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Journal Post #9 – Control Freak Submissive

On April 8, 2010 By Little Snowpaw

I know I´m somewhat of a control freak. Being submissive, I´m supposed to let go of all control and let Master handle everything.

This weekend, Master and I are going to make a trip to visit some friends of ours. Loads of planning, things to keep track of and generally more to control.

My mind [...]

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Picture of the Week

On March 21, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

The chains represent the control that this woman have had to give up. Her fate is controlled by her Dominant, she is exposed and in bonds. She is confined, she is limited to move and express herself with help of her hands. The posture is required as a sign of her being [...]

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BDSM Poetry – The Anticpation

On March 14, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Dominance 101 – Dominance Explained With The Help of A Classroom Metaphor

On January 10, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Sometimes I get people asking me how they can become a good Dominant. There is no easy answer to that question because there so many ways to exercise Dominance and it is all about how you want to be as a Dominant.

Take a look at this video and exchange the words teacher with Dominant [...]

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Submission – Everyday Life within BDSM

On December 24, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Kink.com Upper Floor Free Live Show Event

On December 10, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Keep an eye out on kink.com – They have a free live event on the 10th of December.

The show will take place at the Armory, there will be an elaborate scene enacted live in the decadent quarters constructed on the top floor and broadcast on The Upper Floor’s site [...]

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Picture of the Week

On November 23, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Miurihausen has some nicely played out scenes in their pictures. Maybe a little bit too much on the romantic BDSM side of the fence, but a nice piece of art work. This picture has am element of Femdom in its expression. I don’t like the “picture perfect” people in it with bulging muscles and “perfect” [...]

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Why is submission a gift?

On October 31, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

As I participate in discussions all over the world through the Internet or face to face I consistently run into the common conception that submission is a gift that Dominant should cherish and respect.

Why?

I question this conception because I see a couple of potential pitfalls when someone makes such a statement.

The Dominance [...]
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As a sub you should be able to trust…yourself?

On August 15, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I had some time on my hands the other day and I started to think about the very important subject that is often discussed in different forums where fellow kinksters gather – Trust.

All BDSM relationships involves a great deal of trust between the partners and I would say more trust compared to vanilla relationships. [...]

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Is BDSM a competition?

On April 18, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

LordSir Ninetails inspired me to write this post as he became the devil’s advocate in the replies under this post, which has been highly appreciated. and being the Devils advocate is always important and welcome.

It is totally correct that there are numerous competitions [...]

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What is a good submissive?

On April 14, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she wasn’t a good submissive due to the fact that she did things on her own in play and didn’t always listen to the person dominating her. This made me think for a while about what is a good [...]

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