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With Consent Comes Responsibility

On July 9, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

We have all heard the aged old sentence usually mentioned within the BDSM community – “Submission is a gift”.

I totally agree with this statement, but I believe that it shouldn’t be used as a sort of definition on how much responsibility the Dominant is given by the submissive. If it is used for that [...]

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BDSM Safewords Replaces Magic

On April 25, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

One opinion that I usually encounter when I read through forums and discussion groups is that if you trust your partner and have a healthy relationship then the usage of safewords isn’t necessary. The rationale is that the Dominant knows all the aspect of the submissive and by doing so he/she is actually able to [...]

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Facebook Killer in Jail – What Can We Learn From This?

On March 9, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Rapist and muderer Peter Chapman was online friends with more than 6,000 women and teenage girls on 10 different social networking sites and ended up killing one of them in october last year.

Chapman called himself Peter Cartwright – and claimed he was 17, single, a [...]

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