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Polyamoury, Dominance and Submission: some thoughts

On August 3, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Freelove. Group sex. Gang bangs. Orgies. Exhibitionism and sex shows. If I say “sex, and more than two adults”, those are likely some of the words and images which come up. Do I have your attention?  Well, I am going to talk about BDSM and more than two people, especially focusing on polyamoury and submission.

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Topping from the Bottom: One Submissive’s Thoughts

On March 17, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Preface: I wrote the following in considering how to discuss with a friend how in the world I could ever have offered submission, as I did, to Dominants who were not as educated or aware or BDSM savvy (to the extent that I am or was) as I was. Or how, yep, I HAVE topped [...]

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A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

On February 8, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but the most dangerous thing, in my opinion, is when people with their lack of knowledge try to make conclusions without even the slightest hint of investigation.

I got a whisper in my ear about this article written about Master and slave [...]

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Getting too sure of oneself

On November 20, 2008 By AllSmiles

As a BDSM partnership progress you get quite sure of yourself and each other.

For me it has shown itself as a bit of over believing in myself and my ability to stand strong in my control. So I tend to push my limits a bit too heavy, convinced that I can keep in control. [...]

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Finally some good things in the media about BDSM

On May 3, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

As a try to fulfill Cloud’s request about finding some good and positive news about BDSM. My prior posts around BDSM in the media have often been concentrated around the narrow-minded view that I percieve to be the most common one in the media. Well, here you go Cloud – I’ve decided to break my [...]

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