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Greetings to all Island Readers

On October 19, 2011 By Adilliana

Hello A/all

My Name is adilliana and I am a submissive.

I am one of Master Stoltz slaves on SL. In RL I am in a long-term poly relationship consisting of My Master and my sub ‘sister.’

I have lived in a BDSM 24/7 relationship for 4 years now and I am Still learning something new everyday.

I am here [...]

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Second Life BDSM & a New Writer

On October 19, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

I haven’t written about Second Life BDSM for some time, the reason for that is quite simple; I’ve spent most of my time in the real life BDSM scene, debating, informing and building our local organisation.

I haven’t spent much time reflecting about Second Life BDSM and lately I’ve felt that I had to do [...]

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BDSM News Digest – April 2009

On May 3, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

This might be a recurring column. BDSM DOES get covered in the popular media. For your attention, here are  a few pieces which also made it to the Internet.

April 2009: let’s start with Canada. The British Columbia Rights Human Rights Tribunnal is hearing (finally!) the case of a BDMS lifestyler/pagan denied a chauffeur’s license by [...]

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Help needed – BDSM clothing advice CONTEST

On April 22, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

The summer is approaching and so is the potential amount of BDSM parties, which all seems very interesting to attend. I am definitely not into fashion as I am a relaxed type of guy. But when it comes to attend a BDSM get together, then I am usually a bit picky. I am usually wearing [...]

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Does pain turn you on?

On April 12, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Lately I have been thinking thinking about pain, pain in BDSM, pain in masochism and sadism. I think this is one of the major mysteries for vanilla people when confronted with RL BDSM. “He (or she) hurts you – and you LIKE it?”or “you HURT people – and they LIKE it?” uhm… how to explain?

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Topping from the Bottom: One Submissive’s Thoughts

On March 17, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Preface: I wrote the following in considering how to discuss with a friend how in the world I could ever have offered submission, as I did, to Dominants who were not as educated or aware or BDSM savvy (to the extent that I am or was) as I was. Or how, yep, I HAVE topped [...]

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BDSM and Feminism – a few good reads

On March 7, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

In honor of International Women’s Day (March 8th), a few links on feminism and BDSM. Comments are mine (Cloud’s), as are any errors in summarizing the content; such are not intentional:

BDSM and Feminism: An Insider’s View by Tammy Jo Eckhart. The opinion of one heterosexual, feminist, dominant woman, [...]

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What is this all about?

On February 22, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

It took me about 30 years to realise that I am a dominant. The first question is: Why did it take so long?To be honest, I don’t know – I really don’t know.

One reason could be that BDSM is still a hidden part of society. I would actually say that it is more taboo [...]

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