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Island of Pain Web Radio Show – The Natural Dominant

On January 25, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Island of Pain Web Radio Show this week will be about the elusive myth of the “natural Dominant” – Does this this type of Dominant actually exist?

We have seen people discuss the existence of natural dominance, some even label themselves as being natural Dominants – But what does it actually mean and what is [...]

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How to become a good Dominant – Weekly Podcast

On October 19, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Importance of aftercare

On January 20, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Aftercare is a very important concept within BDSM and an uttermost necessity. Aftercare is, to me, not just the cuddles, getting fluids or providing a blanket. It is also the occasion where the dominant and submissive pick up the experience of the scene/training that they have done together. Aftercare means rationalisation and putting words to [...]

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