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Manifest in spring

On July 21, 2011 By Ulf Popeno

On all these small occasions, between plastic smelling polarized power oriented stereotypes with ever repeating clichés, glimpses of the most hardcore born triggers flicker on and off for a microsecond in my mind. The small boy in latex suit looked at me with big brown eyes. He wanted so much to touch me, to squeeze [...]

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The Dark Side of Porn – Me and My Slaves

On June 2, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

The Dark Side of Porn – Me and My Slaves is a british documentary about a professional male Dominant who turns his back on BDSM.

The Documentary seems to be looking for those simplistic reasons that I’ve mentioned before, where the only conclusion is that you are into BDSM because you are dealing with an [...]

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Visual Week – Spread & Hold

On March 23, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

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The Truth About Male Dominants

On February 22, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Most male Dominants have very extensive powers when it comes to our Dominance, but I am not sure that we are the kings of our castles, that we believe we are, in reality.

This song clearly shows who’s wearing the trousers.

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Say Hello to Ulf Popeno

On February 21, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Give Ulf Popeno a warm welcome!

Ulf is a friend of mine who is going to write here on the blog and the reason for this is that I got a question a while back if I could write something about switching.

My experience in switching is equal to none, so I decided [...]

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Picture of the Week

On October 9, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

BDSM is often something that is taken very seriously, perhaps too seriously. Most of us have probably encountered a situation during a session in which laughter has been more important than the serious.

This image brings out the laughter in me, it always creates joy when people are invited to laugh and this is an [...]

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BDSM Quote of the Day

On March 6, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

 

“A mediocre Master tells, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains, but a True Master inspires”

— Author Unknown

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BDSM Humor of the Week

On February 3, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

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The Master Dance – Tickle Torture Without Touching

On January 3, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I have found a new way to torment unsuspecting submissives. Doing this dance will be at least as effective as tickle torture – I just have to practice the moves…

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Kink.com Upper Floor Free Live Show Event

On December 10, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Keep an eye out on kink.com – They have a free live event on the 10th of December.

The show will take place at the Armory, there will be an elaborate scene enacted live in the decadent quarters constructed on the top floor and broadcast on The Upper Floor’s site [...]

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Why Dominants can’t play cards together

On December 9, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Picture of the Week

On December 5, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Pictures with a humorous twist are always enjoyable to me, especially this one made by Aaron Hawks. Imagine having your afternoon tea with that view in front of you. Bondage and mild humiliation within the same picture.

The male seem to be unaffected by the woman being tied up and I [...]

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Polyamoury, Dominance and Submission: some thoughts

On August 3, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Freelove. Group sex. Gang bangs. Orgies. Exhibitionism and sex shows. If I say “sex, and more than two adults”, those are likely some of the words and images which come up. Do I have your attention?  Well, I am going to talk about BDSM and more than two people, especially focusing on polyamoury and submission.

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Help needed – BDSM clothing advice CONTEST

On April 22, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

The summer is approaching and so is the potential amount of BDSM parties, which all seems very interesting to attend. I am definitely not into fashion as I am a relaxed type of guy. But when it comes to attend a BDSM get together, then I am usually a bit picky. I am usually wearing [...]

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Is BDSM a competition?

On April 18, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

LordSir Ninetails inspired me to write this post as he became the devil’s advocate in the replies under this post, which has been highly appreciated. and being the Devils advocate is always important and welcome.

It is totally correct that there are numerous competitions [...]

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Does pain turn you on?

On April 12, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Lately I have been thinking thinking about pain, pain in BDSM, pain in masochism and sadism. I think this is one of the major mysteries for vanilla people when confronted with RL BDSM. “He (or she) hurts you – and you LIKE it?”or “you HURT people – and they LIKE it?” uhm… how to explain?

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Topping from the Bottom: One Submissive’s Thoughts

On March 17, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Preface: I wrote the following in considering how to discuss with a friend how in the world I could ever have offered submission, as I did, to Dominants who were not as educated or aware or BDSM savvy (to the extent that I am or was) as I was. Or how, yep, I HAVE topped [...]

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