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2009 Bondage Awards

On March 30, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

The Island of Pain blog has qualified for the second and final round in the 2009 Bondage Awards. These awards are people’s choice (voted) awards for adult kinky websites. Island of Pain is proud to be a second round contender in the category Free Websites.

Stage Two of [...]

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Topping from the Bottom: One Submissive’s Thoughts

On March 17, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Preface: I wrote the following in considering how to discuss with a friend how in the world I could ever have offered submission, as I did, to Dominants who were not as educated or aware or BDSM savvy (to the extent that I am or was) as I was. Or how, yep, I HAVE topped [...]

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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 4: Tools for Roleplaying

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Combining our tools for good RP. Emotes, in-world furniture, toys, environment, power, control, understanding others. Interpreting profiles. Understanding RP etiquette. Reading and understanding sim rules.

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: Force Silverspar. FREE, tips encouraged.

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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 3: Roleplaying cont.

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

More on Roleplaying. Using the environment, Godmoding, Metagaming, grammar, spelling and punctuation,Third/First person. Differences between living out short scenes and long story lines. Language issues. Setting up a scene. Generic language V role specific language.

 

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: Force Silverspar. FREE, tips encouraged. 
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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 2: Roleplaying

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Roleplaying. What is roleplaying. What is sexual roleplaying (cybering). Identifying and creating the role you want to play. Basic rules of roleplaying with other people. Safety including emotional risks. IC & OOC. Recap of lesson 1 and demonstration of a short interaction.

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: [...]
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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 1: Emoting

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

An introduction to ROlePlay for Everyone: Session 1: Emoting. What is emoting. Using the prompt. Extending emoting into possessive pronouns and adding speech. Using descriptions. Using adjectives. Using your senses. Actions, thoughts and feelings. Pros and cons of emoting HUDs, cue cards and pre-written text. Lots of interaction and practice from attendees.

Location: Island of [...]

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Short on inspiration again…

On December 2, 2008 By AllSmiles

..or the things I have to say is too big to write about…

But yesterday I failed to do my daily post as my head was filled with thoughts and things and I had one of my sleeping frenzies…

I did get punished though, so you can rest easily with that. Not an entirely bad thing though… [...]

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What makes the Sub submissive?

On November 17, 2008 By AllSmiles

How much submission must I, as a Sub, show and feel to be an actual submissive. When do I become a submissive? These are the questions going through my mind this morning.

I do call myself submissive – but I do not feel submissive in life. I feel submissive during some BDSM sessions but not [...]

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