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When Punishment Goes too Far

On November 16, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Punishment might be an important part of your BDSM relationship and is something that can be used creatively, but how do you know when things have gone too far?

Last year I got that question from one of our readers which made me do a post about the subject, Continue Reading

Are Our Children Exposed to Too Much BDSM – A Response to Cyprus Mail

On March 24, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Cyprus Mail has written a highly stereotyped article on how young children are exposed to pornography as well as BDSM imagery on the Internet; Are our Children exposed to too much pornography?

The article is based on what Cyprus Mail define as “Continue Reading

Our Last Radio Show as a Podcast – Interview With a Submissive

On February 10, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

If you missed the opportunity to listen in to our last radio show on the 31st of January, then you have the chance to listen to it now.

We have turned it into a podcast so you can listen to our interview with Little Snowpaw. Don’t forget that our next radio show is going on [...]

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Rod Jetton Going Wild – The “Green Balloons” Case

On December 9, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

To me, the boundaries of BDSM are quite clear, but to some people the boundaries seems blurred and moves quite quickly into something that is real abuse.

News broke last night that the former Missouri House Speaker has been charged with felony assault that allegedly happened during an S&M session gone wrong.

According to one [...]

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Picture of the Week

On November 1, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

This is a picture created by Élan Vital. First of all; Yes, I have a soft spot for B&W images and there is just something to them that creates a surrealistic feel.

Rape play is a part of BDSM sometimes and is of course always done with consent and he scene [...]

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A dose of Saturday ignorance thanks to Kandinsky Beaumont

On February 8, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

There are different people in our world and different levels of acceptance, but the most dangerous thing, in my opinion, is when people with their lack of knowledge try to make conclusions without even the slightest hint of investigation.

I got a whisper in my ear about this article written about Master and slave [...]

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Getting used and abused, not loved

On November 21, 2008 By AllSmiles

So now I am lost for words! Just red a blog from a 18 year old schoolgirl calling her self slave to a 30 year old man. This blog would be the perfect example on how to not go about submission! ( if you read Swedish: http://slavflickan.blogspot.com )

Reading her blog about how he pulls [...]

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The difference between BDSM and abuse

On May 7, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

I had an interesting discussion with a person the other day where I tried to explain the difference between abuse and BDSM. The hard part with a discussion like that is that I am into BDSM and it becomes natural to me to see a distinct difference between the two. That also makes it a [...]

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