<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments for Island of Pain</title>
	<atom:link href="http://islandofpain.com/comments/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://islandofpain.com</link>
	<description>Living BDSM as a Second Life and in Real Life</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:35:17 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator>
<xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" />
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Public Electroplay Video by Stromerin</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2011/05/31/public-electroplay-video/comment-page-1/#comment-6841</link>
		<dc:creator>Stromerin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:35:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=5444#comment-6841</guid>
		<description>I love the pain caused by the current 
Let me deal already has about 15 years for men and women to drive and fantastic orgasms </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the pain caused by the current<br />
Let me deal already has about 15 years for men and women to drive and fantastic orgasms</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on BDSM Tattoo Designs by Pammie</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2010/07/22/bdsm-tattoo-designs/comment-page-1/#comment-6840</link>
		<dc:creator>Pammie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 04:17:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=4177#comment-6840</guid>
		<description>I am a white girl in a interracial, D/s relationship.  We are looking for interracial D/s tattoo ideas.  Currently, I have a spade on my neck, the 2 female symbols, one black and one white, on my shoulder blade and the profile of a white womans face on right boob, blowing a kiss to the profile of a black womans face on my left boob with a heart in motion between my boobs (her design BTW).  We are looking for designs of photos that are of a more adult nature to put on my back or butt.  links or photos would be great.  THanks </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a white girl in a interracial, D/s relationship.  We are looking for interracial D/s tattoo ideas.  Currently, I have a spade on my neck, the 2 female symbols, one black and one white, on my shoulder blade and the profile of a white womans face on right boob, blowing a kiss to the profile of a black womans face on my left boob with a heart in motion between my boobs (her design BTW).  We are looking for designs of photos that are of a more adult nature to put on my back or butt.  links or photos would be great.  THanks</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Public Electroplay Video by Miss Catherine Gail</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2011/05/31/public-electroplay-video/comment-page-1/#comment-6839</link>
		<dc:creator>Miss Catherine Gail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 07:01:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=5444#comment-6839</guid>
		<description>There is nothing Pavlovian in this, and nothing classical either that I can tell.  
 
Power exchange certainly. Pain definitely. Sadistic fun, absolutely. 
 
Catherine </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is nothing Pavlovian in this, and nothing classical either that I can tell.  </p>
<p>Power exchange certainly. Pain definitely. Sadistic fun, absolutely. </p>
<p>Catherine</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on BDSM Educational Videos On The Web &#8211; Good Or Bad? by Hook</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2010/01/30/bdsm-educational-videos-on-the-web-good-or-bad/comment-page-1/#comment-6838</link>
		<dc:creator>Hook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 10:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=2642#comment-6838</guid>
		<description>&quot;Be prepared to treat burn marks from ropes, it happens.&quot; 
 
What would you say is a good way to deal with burn marks from ropes? </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;Be prepared to treat burn marks from ropes, it happens.&quot; </p>
<p>What would you say is a good way to deal with burn marks from ropes?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Does pain turn you on? by Humbled One</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/04/12/does-pain-turn-you-on/comment-page-1/#comment-6837</link>
		<dc:creator>Humbled One</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 00:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=646#comment-6837</guid>
		<description>Hey guys (or girls), i&#039;ve known about my masochistic desires, especially humiliation play, for a couple years now, and the person i&#039;m with has known it since we got together almost a year ago, and she doesn&#039;t necessarily understand why i like what i like, both the physical and physiological aspects of BDSM, and she is only slightly sadistic with no masochistic tendencies. she started being my dom during sessions about six months ago, and seems to enjoy the fact that she&#039;s pleasing me more than she&#039;s enjoying the act itself. my question to all of you is this: is it wrong for me to allow her to continue practicing both pain and humiliation play with me even though she doesn&#039;t get very much out of it? (by the way, once we&#039;re done with the session, i DO fulfill her vanilla needs) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey guys (or girls), i&#039;ve known about my masochistic desires, especially humiliation play, for a couple years now, and the person i&#039;m with has known it since we got together almost a year ago, and she doesn&#039;t necessarily understand why i like what i like, both the physical and physiological aspects of BDSM, and she is only slightly sadistic with no masochistic tendencies. she started being my dom during sessions about six months ago, and seems to enjoy the fact that she&#039;s pleasing me more than she&#039;s enjoying the act itself. my question to all of you is this: is it wrong for me to allow her to continue practicing both pain and humiliation play with me even though she doesn&#039;t get very much out of it? (by the way, once we&#039;re done with the session, i DO fulfill her vanilla needs)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on BDSM humor of the week by Ms T</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/12/02/bdsm-humor-of-the-week-9/comment-page-1/#comment-6836</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 22:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=1139#comment-6836</guid>
		<description>Love it. Too many people forget that BDSM can be fun. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love it. Too many people forget that BDSM can be fun.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on The Dominant&#8217;s no no by Hook</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/11/20/the-dominants-no-no/comment-page-1/#comment-6835</link>
		<dc:creator>Hook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 23:10:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=1556#comment-6835</guid>
		<description>Thanks for these reminders.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for these reminders.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on BDSM humor of the week by oh holy night &#124; The Master and His slave</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/12/23/bdsm-humor-of-the-week-12/comment-page-1/#comment-6834</link>
		<dc:creator>oh holy night &#124; The Master and His slave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 20:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=1151#comment-6834</guid>
		<description>[...] saw this on another blog and it amused [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] saw this on another blog and it amused [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Is BDSM Illegal &#8211; BDSM Goes to Court in Sweden by Albanach</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2010/06/06/is-bdsm-illegal-bdsm-goes-to-court-in-sweden/comment-page-1/#comment-6833</link>
		<dc:creator>Albanach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 13:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=3979#comment-6833</guid>
		<description>So how did the case turn out? Incidentally, there is no &#039;United Kingdom&#039; law on such issues. England &amp; Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland all have their own legal systems.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So how did the case turn out? Incidentally, there is no &#039;United Kingdom&#039; law on such issues. England &amp; Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland all have their own legal systems.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on The Humiliator Gag System by tessa</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/12/09/the-humiliator-gag-system/comment-page-1/#comment-6832</link>
		<dc:creator>tessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 09:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=1938#comment-6832</guid>
		<description>This is so going on my wish list..I think my Master would love to use it on me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so going on my wish list..I think my Master would love to use it on me.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on The difference between BDSM and abuse by Aaaaaaaaa</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2008/05/07/the-difference-between-bdsm-and-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-6830</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaaaaaaaa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 16:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=34#comment-6830</guid>
		<description>i dont appreciate word abuse. it is overused these days and in US and other stupid countries like Australia or UK all see everything as this f u c k ing &#039;abuse&#039; and because of that u get stupid law </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i dont appreciate word abuse. it is overused these days and in US and other stupid countries like Australia or UK all see everything as this f u c k ing &#039;abuse&#039; and because of that u get stupid law</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Picture of the Week by sadeyquinn</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2010/03/28/picture-of-the-week-20/comment-page-1/#comment-6829</link>
		<dc:creator>sadeyquinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 23:10:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=3288#comment-6829</guid>
		<description>love it! great photo and great commentary. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>love it! great photo and great commentary.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Nipple torture 101 &#8211; A Clamp guide by slave jimmy</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/09/14/nipple-torture-101-a-clamp-guide/comment-page-1/#comment-6611</link>
		<dc:creator>slave jimmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 06:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=902#comment-6611</guid>
		<description>it uses shower curtain rings. its nipples are wired to its cock. pain on its nipples gets it off. Master approves. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it uses shower curtain rings. its nipples are wired to its cock. pain on its nipples gets it off. Master approves.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on The Toy Brings You Joy by slave jimmy</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2011/05/30/the-toy-brings-you-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-6550</link>
		<dc:creator>slave jimmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 00:56:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=5429#comment-6550</guid>
		<description>I want one. Or at least the remote part! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want one. Or at least the remote part!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Watch Out When You are Tied To A Bed by mike</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/12/21/watch-out-when-you-are-tied-to-a-bed/comment-page-1/#comment-6473</link>
		<dc:creator>mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2011 17:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=2058#comment-6473</guid>
		<description>Speak for yourself. Some of us males like long thick protuberances put into our orifaces, especially while tied to a bed. Dont knock it, til youve tried it. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speak for yourself. Some of us males like long thick protuberances put into our orifaces, especially while tied to a bed. Dont knock it, til youve tried it.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Video &#8211; Fear and Submission by DarkThoughts</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2011/03/06/video-fear-and-submission/comment-page-1/#comment-6421</link>
		<dc:creator>DarkThoughts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 02:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=4951#comment-6421</guid>
		<description>I agree with fear being a consensual part of a BDSM dynamic, once the foundation of a healthy dynamic has been established, then fear is just another wonderful tool to be used by the dominant.  The submissive should never fear saying No though.   
 
I disagree that this video illustrates this concept. Unless there&#039;s some more to their relationship that I missed by not watching the full movie, then what we&#039;re watching is just this side of rape.  She isn&#039;t submitting to him, she is actively resisting against him, and he&#039;s just overpowering her. 
 
But taking this scene out of the context of the movie and placing it into a consensual framework of a relationship, then yeah, this could be the beginning of a hot scene. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with fear being a consensual part of a BDSM dynamic, once the foundation of a healthy dynamic has been established, then fear is just another wonderful tool to be used by the dominant.  The submissive should never fear saying No though.   </p>
<p>I disagree that this video illustrates this concept. Unless there&#039;s some more to their relationship that I missed by not watching the full movie, then what we&#039;re watching is just this side of rape.  She isn&#039;t submitting to him, she is actively resisting against him, and he&#039;s just overpowering her. </p>
<p>But taking this scene out of the context of the movie and placing it into a consensual framework of a relationship, then yeah, this could be the beginning of a hot scene.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Soundtrack for a session by HarryB</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2008/11/01/soundtrack-for-a-session/comment-page-1/#comment-6394</link>
		<dc:creator>HarryB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 07:47:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=127#comment-6394</guid>
		<description>Best CD for my Playroom is &quot;Mort aux vaches&quot; by Jorge Reyes. The music is called &quot;Aztec Lounge&quot;, and it is the ideal background music, as it is eerie but unobstrusive at the same time. I have been playing this in the background for years now, and many bottoms have asked for a copy ... </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Best CD for my Playroom is &quot;Mort aux vaches&quot; by Jorge Reyes. The music is called &quot;Aztec Lounge&quot;, and it is the ideal background music, as it is eerie but unobstrusive at the same time. I have been playing this in the background for years now, and many bottoms have asked for a copy &#8230;</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on BDSM Jewelry by ibrat</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2009/10/13/bdsm-jewelry/comment-page-1/#comment-6344</link>
		<dc:creator>ibrat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=1180#comment-6344</guid>
		<description>DO NOT buy from Pure TNT.  I&#039;ve researched them and found nothing but complaints.  THey are also &quot;banned&quot; from PayPal...not a good sign </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DO NOT buy from Pure TNT.  I&#039;ve researched them and found nothing but complaints.  THey are also &quot;banned&quot; from PayPal&#8230;not a good sign</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on When Punishment Goes too Far by Serafina</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2011/11/16/when-punishment-goes-too-far/comment-page-1/#comment-6298</link>
		<dc:creator>Serafina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 15:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=5842#comment-6298</guid>
		<description>Real punishment shuts me down. . I would rather die than be humiliated in any form, but I do enjoy voyeuristic surprises, and spanking, flogging etc.   
I do also agree that for some people they have desires and needs I don&#039;t have or need to understand to appreciate. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Real punishment shuts me down. . I would rather die than be humiliated in any form, but I do enjoy voyeuristic surprises, and spanking, flogging etc.<br />
I do also agree that for some people they have desires and needs I don&#039;t have or need to understand to appreciate.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Journal Post #11 &#8211; Fear Overload by Stoltz Sinatra</title>
		<link>http://islandofpain.com/2011/03/04/journal-post-11-fear-overload/comment-page-1/#comment-6202</link>
		<dc:creator>Stoltz Sinatra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 01:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://islandofpain.com/?p=4938#comment-6202</guid>
		<description>Thank you for your kind words 
 
I totally agree with you. To me it&#039;s the personality/person that drives submission - And with that comes all the experiences one has been subjected to. 
 
This is equally true for a Dominant. 
 
To me it&#039;s the journey that is my pay off, to see someone else grow in their own expression and expanding the abilities that are already there. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your kind words </p>
<p>I totally agree with you. To me it&#039;s the personality/person that drives submission &#8211; And with that comes all the experiences one has been subjected to. </p>
<p>This is equally true for a Dominant. </p>
<p>To me it&#039;s the journey that is my pay off, to see someone else grow in their own expression and expanding the abilities that are already there.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

