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BDSM Video – Punishment 2

On November 19, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

This male submissive is getting a harsh punishment by his Mistress because he had an erection without permission – Rules are supposed to be kept in a strict manner.

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What Kind of Punishment do You Prefer?

On November 17, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

There’s a lot of punishment categories that can be used to prevent disobedient sub missives from getting the upper hand.

Take our poll and think about what kind of punishment you prefer and it doesn’t matter if you are in the giving or receiving end of things. Feel free to leave [...]

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When Punishment Goes too Far

On November 16, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Punishment might be an important part of your BDSM relationship and is something that can be used creatively, but how do you know when things have gone too far?

Last year I got that question from one of our readers which made me do a post about the subject, Continue Reading

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Interesting Sources for Punishment in BDSM

On November 15, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

There’s a lot of interesting material on the web about BDSM, some writings are better than others – In the end it’s a never-ending flood of information.

I’ve put together a curated list of places that has interesting angles on punishment within the BDSM context. Some of the texts are describing specific techniques, others are [...]

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BDSM Video – Punishment 1

On November 14, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

This is a nice video of a gorgeous Mistress whipping a male submissive. She is definitely treating him the way he deserves to be treated.

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Island of Pain Video – Exposure

On November 13, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra
Exposure is an underestimated word, but equally important as honesty and trust. We talk about a lot of words when you are into BDSM, but never about exposure.
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How to Build an Ice Dildo

On October 12, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

This is a nice little video on how to build your own ice dildos.

Thanks to Limer for the link

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Adam Winrich – Extreme Whipcracker

On June 5, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Adam Winrich is a world record holder and knows how to handle his whips.

Take a look at this video to see some of his performance tricks.

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Violet Wand – First Impressions

On March 11, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

I’ve bought a violet wand, as I told you all in a post a couple of weeks ago, and now I’ve had a chance to get myself familiarized with it. If you are into electroplay using TENS units, then I would say that the experience of a [...]

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Claws for BDSM and Electroplay

On March 4, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Claws are quite useful in a BDSM context – They give the victim an interesting tactile sensation and plays with the, almost culturally encoded, fear of sharp objects that tells us that they are dangerous. I’m personally intrigued by how claws can become a tool that is both esthetically and gracious at the [...]

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I’m Going For a Violet Wand

On January 29, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Electricity is often something that many look upon with horror in their eyes. It is considered to be unpredictable, invisible and its consequences are often deadly. We are nurtured since childhood that electricity is something dangerous and something you should stay away from, and to some extent, there is basically a culturally conditioned fear around [...]

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The Guilty Submissive and The Punishment

On December 4, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I got a question on Twitter a couple of days ago. Cassandra-DeLClaire, a 20 year old submissive, asked me about what she considered to be a horrible mistake on her part. She has written a detailed post in our forum about the situation surrounding the mistake itself so [...]

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Midori’s Flogging Workshop in Copenhagen

On October 13, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Sundays are usually days off for most people, but we decided to be active instead, so we spent most of our Sunday participating in Midori’s flogging workhop in Copenhagen.

The event was organized by SMIL, which is a national Danish BDSM organization.

We [...]

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Do You Want to Be a Dominatrix?

On October 7, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Pay attention when Nina Payne teaches her ladies-only Dominatrix for a Day workshop in the salon space of kink boutique Coco de Mer (236 Elizabeth St between E Houston and Prince Sts, 212-966-9069, cocodemerusa.com; Oct 19 at 7pm; $65).

There will always be a good opportunity to learn something [...]

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Genki and the Art of Eel Porn

On August 17, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I’m not totally sure that this will qualify as BDSM – Japanese girls playing with eels up their pussy.

It’s a sort of real life spin off from the cartoons that depicts tentacle porn, which is basically Japanese girls being impregnated with alien eggs by aliens with large tentacles. The concept is in other words [...]

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Jay Wiseman on Breath Play: A Closing Argument

On July 7, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Jay Wiseman, author of “SM101 – A Realistic Introduction” and BDSM educator, created a lot of debate around his opinions regarding Breath Play. A lot of his argumentation was, and still is, based on his medical skills, which is something not everyone within the BDSM community has acquired.

I agree with Jay Wiseman on this, [...]

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Ask Us About BDSM

On July 7, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

We’ve added a question box on the right side of the blog. You can it to ask us about how we think around BDSM and approach the lifestyle – Other questions might also be welcome of course.

Ask us about our opinion on consent, 24/7 or our love for leather, you can basically ask us [...]

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