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A Detailed Look at Sex Injuries

On December 11, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

BDSM sometimes involve causing injuries to your partner, based on consent of course. This is a fact that is often used by people who don’t understand or are against BDSM when they utter the famous words that we’ve seen so often: “That’s sick…How can they get turned on by hurting each other?”

Well here’s a [...]

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The Effects of Outing Yourself on TV

On December 3, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

I wrote a post last spring that I would take part in a  national TV show about BDSM. I was filmed in late April by the team from the “Fråga Olle” show and the show was on air about 2 months [...]

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Rethink Breast Cancer – Your Man Reminder

On December 2, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

This post isn’t about BDSM, it’s about something totally different. It’s about something that might affect you or someone you know in the BDSM community.

It’s about breast cancer.

Breast cancer is serious business because it can kill if it stays undetected and it’s very easy to get quite gloomy when writing a post like [...]

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Interesting Sources for Punishment in BDSM

On November 15, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

There’s a lot of interesting material on the web about BDSM, some writings are better than others – In the end it’s a never-ending flood of information.

I’ve put together a curated list of places that has interesting angles on punishment within the BDSM context. Some of the texts are describing specific techniques, others are [...]

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What Does True Submission Mean?

On October 25, 2011 By Adilliana

A while ago Master Stoltz asked me a question – what does true submission mean to you?

It is a concept at the core of the BDSM community as it is asking for a definition of the essence of submission. It’s tricky and complex as it’s something that is [...]

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Greetings to all Island Readers

On October 19, 2011 By Adilliana

Hello A/all

My Name is adilliana and I am a submissive.

I am one of Master Stoltz slaves on SL. In RL I am in a long-term poly relationship consisting of My Master and my sub ‘sister.’

I have lived in a BDSM 24/7 relationship for 4 years now and I am Still learning something new everyday.

I am here [...]

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Second Life BDSM & a New Writer

On October 19, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

I haven’t written about Second Life BDSM for some time, the reason for that is quite simple; I’ve spent most of my time in the real life BDSM scene, debating, informing and building our local organisation.

I haven’t spent much time reflecting about Second Life BDSM and lately I’ve felt that I had to do [...]

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A Letter to the Worried Dominant

On July 28, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Dear worried Dominant

Do you feel uncomfortable when you do things to your submissive?

Don’t worry, it’s normal because you are taught not to do certain things. You don’t usually torment other people and you don’t usually go around and whip people until they are in a lucid state. The things that you will gradually [...]

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BDSM Quote of the Day

On July 28, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

 

“It’s hard to blow your nose with a butt plug in”

 — Unknown

 

 

 

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Have things really changed?

On July 23, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

The old and “famous” mental hygiene video with George Putnam makes me laugh, but as I start to think I suddenly realize that moralists still present their argumentation in the same manner – Almost 60 years later!

Extremes are argued against as some sort of moral decay, innocent activities are infused with fear and portrayed [...]

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Manifest in spring

On July 21, 2011 By Ulf Popeno

On all these small occasions, between plastic smelling polarized power oriented stereotypes with ever repeating clichés, glimpses of the most hardcore born triggers flicker on and off for a microsecond in my mind. The small boy in latex suit looked at me with big brown eyes. He wanted so much to touch me, to squeeze [...]

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You Can Find Me on Google+

On July 20, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

If you are on Google+ then you can find me there as Stoltz Sinatra. Feel free to add me as I am more active there than I am on my Facebook account.

One reason that I’m not overly active on Facebook is the fact [...]

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Do Not Disturb BDSM Sign

On July 20, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

 

My submissive friend, limerSWE, has been to TES Fest and he claims to that he had a wonderful time. I don’t doubt him, especially when he sent me this picture that he took. I guess adding “Femdoms at work” would also be appropriate.

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My Violet Wand is both a blessing and a curse

On July 12, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

The regular reader knows that I bought a violet wand a while back and I haven’t written much about my experiences with it.

There is one big problem with having a violet wand, you will never be left alone once you pull it out of your toy bag. It’s a nice problem of course, I [...]

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Poll – Is BDSM the Result of a Trauma?

On June 2, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Take our poll, gives us your opinion and feel free to leave a comment on the subject.

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The Dark Side of Porn – Me and My Slaves

On June 2, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

The Dark Side of Porn – Me and My Slaves is a british documentary about a professional male Dominant who turns his back on BDSM.

The Documentary seems to be looking for those simplistic reasons that I’ve mentioned before, where the only conclusion is that you are into BDSM because you are dealing with an [...]

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Is Being a Dominant an Illness?

On June 1, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

You’ve probably seen it before, the old argument that says “If you are kinky, then that is a product of some sort of trauma”. You’ve probably also seen that being a masochist is an expression of a self destructive behaviour.

Do you recognise yourself, can you see yourself as a product of a trauma – [...]

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