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It Hurts So Good – Academic Analysis of BDSM

On March 31, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

These videos are excerpts from the Q & A period of Adam Swenson’s lecture: “Hurts so good: What’s bad about masochistic pain?” presented to the Center for Sex and Gender Research, California State University Northridge. They are quite interesting to watch and are food for thoughts. There are more videos after the jump…

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Sadomasochist Music Video

On March 29, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Fuck Consent!

On May 7, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I try to keep my fingers in different forums to get a feel for the temperature within the BDSM community. One thing that I am always struck with is how reluctant most of us are to give good advice and how reluctant some people are to acknowledge some type of norms within BDSM, norms like [...]

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Lunds Lekloft – Yet another party!

On May 5, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

The local BDSM scene in my area seems to affected by spring feelings and fetish/BDSM parties are taking place everywhere. This is utterly fun and a good way to get to know people around you with the same interests in different kinks.

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Submissives without limits

On April 28, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I am active now and then in a Swedish BDSM forum and yesterday I bumped into a submissive male 19 years old, that in the forum claimed that he wanted to be kicked all over his body and that he had no limits. This guy could of course be emo playing the forum, but he is [...]

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Big BDSM party on the 16th of May

On April 23, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Attention, all you scene people in Scandinavia – SMiL is celebrating its 30thbirthday with a big birthday party on the 16th May.

SMiL is one of Denmarks biggest BDSM organisations and the party takes place in Copenhagen and there is a lot of promising events

Violet Wand show by the International Voilet Wand Guild Bondage Show [...]
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It’s good to get flogged in the morning

On April 17, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

You wake up early in the morning and feel a new day dawning, then all of sudden you realise you need your morning fix. Maybe a cup of coffee or a cup of tea is in place or maybe a dose of endorphin induced by an early morning flogging. It surely did get my juices [...]

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Does pain turn you on?

On April 12, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Lately I have been thinking thinking about pain, pain in BDSM, pain in masochism and sadism. I think this is one of the major mysteries for vanilla people when confronted with RL BDSM. “He (or she) hurts you – and you LIKE it?”or “you HURT people – and they LIKE it?” uhm… how to explain?

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In For Life 2 has opened!

On March 6, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

We have been busy bees over the last couple of weeks as our prison sim In For Life has expanded into an additional sim.

There was a need for more cells, but also for expanded role play, and the expansion to the existing prison is a darker addition to the storyline, a place where [...]

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What the fuck is sexy about humiliation?

On February 28, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

What the fuck is sexy about humiliation?
That’s the question my sister asked me and I was speechless. I had no answer. Not a word to say in response. How to explain to my strong educated sister that HER strong educated sister gets turned on, in fact wet, when her “Master” tells her she [...]

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