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BDSM Video – Punishment 3

On November 25, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

I’ve decided to prolong our Punishment Week a bit, so here is another punishment video with a girl who is getting punished with a crop and some healthy exercise.

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What Kind of Punishment do You Prefer?

On November 17, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

There’s a lot of punishment categories that can be used to prevent disobedient sub missives from getting the upper hand.

Take our poll and think about what kind of punishment you prefer and it doesn’t matter if you are in the giving or receiving end of things. Feel free to leave [...]

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When Punishment Goes too Far

On November 16, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Punishment might be an important part of your BDSM relationship and is something that can be used creatively, but how do you know when things have gone too far?

Last year I got that question from one of our readers which made me do a post about the subject, Continue Reading

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Interesting Sources for Punishment in BDSM

On November 15, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

There’s a lot of interesting material on the web about BDSM, some writings are better than others – In the end it’s a never-ending flood of information.

I’ve put together a curated list of places that has interesting angles on punishment within the BDSM context. Some of the texts are describing specific techniques, others are [...]

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Island of Pain Video – Exposure

On November 13, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra
Exposure is an underestimated word, but equally important as honesty and trust. We talk about a lot of words when you are into BDSM, but never about exposure.
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Mike’s Spikes Puts an Edge to Chastity

On October 20, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Mikes’s Spikes is an interesting male chastity device that is both versatile and evil. It is aesthetically pleasing to the eye, which is not bad at all as I prefer things that combine function and  looks. My personal opinion is that Mike’s Spikes is pure eye candy compared to other male chastity devices on the [...]

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A Letter to the Worried Dominant

On July 28, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

Dear worried Dominant

Do you feel uncomfortable when you do things to your submissive?

Don’t worry, it’s normal because you are taught not to do certain things. You don’t usually torment other people and you don’t usually go around and whip people until they are in a lucid state. The things that you will gradually [...]

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Journal Post #11 – Fear Overload

On March 4, 2011 By Stoltz Sinatra

It’s been quite some time since I’ve written a journal post and there is a good reason for that – We have been taking things very slowly.

One of the main reasons is that Snowpaw has had some bad experiences, before we met, during random encounters with “not so serious” Dominants, which basically ended with [...]

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A Question About Punishment

On December 12, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I received a question on Twitter a couple of days ago from locknkey24:

@BDSMlifestyle Alright, well.. my Mistress and I are really new at this. One question, how do you know when a punishment is too severe..?

It made me think and I had to think for a little while [...]

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A Letter to the Afraid Submissive

On November 19, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I occasionally get involved in discussions where the argument is based on on the opinion that most Dominants are dangerous because the control they get is something that will make them abuse the submissive. My experience is that this type of discussion and argument is often fueled by submissive insecurities and submissives that have [...]

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BDSM Quote of the Day

On November 17, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra



“There are times when fear is good. It must keep its watchful place at the heart’s controls. There is advantage in the wisdom won from pain”

— Æschylus (525-456 BC)

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Midori’s Flogging Workshop in Copenhagen

On October 13, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Sundays are usually days off for most people, but we decided to be active instead, so we spent most of our Sunday participating in Midori’s flogging workhop in Copenhagen.

The event was organized by SMIL, which is a national Danish BDSM organization.

We [...]

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BDSM Tattoo Designs

On July 22, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

One way to reveal your kink to the right people is to wear the BDSM symbol as a ring or in a necklace. The BDSM symbol is subtle and one has to know what it is in order to understand the meaning of it – It is basically a safe way to out yourself to [...]

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BDSM Quote of the Day

On July 4, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra



“Wearing leather makes you no more a leatherman than wearing wool makes you a sheep”

— Jack Rinella

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Strict Dominance and Submissive Training

On June 13, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Training the will of the submissive requires strict dominance, which this video clearly shows. The exercises shown are good for posture training and general politeness. Nothing is more beautiful than a submissive that can behave accordingly in a specific context.

 

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The Pet – A BDSM Movie Mix Up That Pisses Me Off.

On May 17, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

We spent yesterday afternoon watching a BDSM movie named “The Pet” and my impression is that it’s a movie with a split personality. To some small extent it’s a peep-hole into some of the dynamics in TPE as well as Pet play. On the other hand it also seems like an ambush where [...]

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Submissives Without Limits

On May 16, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Submissives without limits is a subject that is interesting to us an LunaKM over at Submissive Guide has done a very insightful video post on the subject.

If you are interested in our opinion on the subject then feel free to listen to our podcast [...]

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