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From the monthly archives: March 2010

It Hurts So Good – Academic Analysis of BDSM

On March 31, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

These videos are excerpts from the Q & A period of Adam Swenson’s lecture: “Hurts so good: What’s bad about masochistic pain?” presented to the Center for Sex and Gender Research, California State University Northridge. They are quite interesting to watch and are food for thoughts. There are more videos after the jump…

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Journal Post #7 – Fear is A Great Motivational Force Within BDSM

On March 31, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I bounced back full force Sunday morning – I craved for Dominating Little after I had been sick for almost 3 weeks and I were convinced that she picked up on this as she was playfully provoking me for most of the time during the Sunday morning. My initial thought was “oh, so you want [...]

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BDSM Humor of the Week

On March 31, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Be There From the Start – Love in Chains

On March 29, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

I love to be there from the start, it doesn’t matter if it is a building that is being built or a person evolving – I simply love to be there from the start. I enjoy watching things progress, how experience grows and how that changes a person, the relationship and the expression of it.

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A Dominant’s View on Weight Loss Scams – Spammers Get Lost!

On March 29, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Running a blog will inadvertedly draw some spam in your direction. Most of the time all the bells and whistles behind the front deals with all the car deals, Viagra, drugs and financial money making scams that the spam is about.

Spammers try new tricks in the book every day; One of them is to [...]

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Puma Swede Gets It – A Nice Electroplay Video

On March 29, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Puma Swede wants to become a Dominatrix over at wiredpussy.com – But before that she has to pass the test. A nice video which involves violet wands among other things.

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Sadomasochist Music Video

On March 29, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Picture of the Week

On March 28, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Is she kidnapped or is she being punished? Is Her Dominant looking at TV or is he just having the dinner that she prepared before she was tied up and put in the corner. For how long has she been there – 1 hour or maybe 2 hours?

We are looking at her over [...]

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Reform School Girls – Lesbian Dominance Vibes

On March 28, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

It’s a bit cheesy, but it still is nice to look at if you have a tad of prison play lesbian dominance fetish. It has all the necessary elements – Bad girls, evil guards and a promise of nasty abuse.

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BDSM Quote of the Day

On March 28, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

“In the beginning I was fooled by Dominants who were good looking, had charisma, dressed well, and had that “dominant” personae. I soon realized that these things are easy to fashion. Real Dominance is a deep and visceral thing, something that has nothing to do with the trappings of BDSM.”

— Sensuous Sadie

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A Documentary About Kinbaku

On March 26, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

There is a really good Finnish documentary out there about Kinbaku, Japanese performance art involving rope bondage. The movie has a bunch of famous names in it, Osada Steve is one of them.

Just follow the link: Kinbaku – The Movie to have a [...]

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Changes to Our Comment System – Intensedebate

On March 26, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

We have done some changes to our comment system and added Intensedebat to it.

This means that you can grade other comments and do replies in a different way. You can also use your twitter or your WordPress account to log on to Intensedebate and you will also have the possibility to Tweet your comments.

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Our BDSM Radio Show is Back on the Air – You Decide the Topic

On March 25, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

We are finally getting back again to our biweekly BDSM radio show.

I’ve had a respiratory virus which literally made it impossible for me to do a broadcast due to extensive coughing attacks – And I don’t even smoke!

This time we thought that we would do things a little bit differently – We will [...]

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The Trap

On March 25, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

If you have a personal dungeon, then you need some furniture for it as well. Making your submissive building furniture for you might be a bonding experience, doing it yourself might be an ego boost.

But if you don’t have the time, then you have to buy your furniture from professional builders.

Toys4Lust has built [...]

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Are Our Children Exposed to Too Much BDSM – A Response to Cyprus Mail

On March 24, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Cyprus Mail has written a highly stereotyped article on how young children are exposed to pornography as well as BDSM imagery on the Internet; Are our Children exposed to too much pornography?

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BDSM Humor of the Week

On March 23, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Susan For Now

On March 23, 2010 By Stoltz Sinatra

Susan For Now is a documentary that investigates the world of Sadomasochism through the eyes of a woman who is reclaiming her sexuality.

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