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From the monthly archives: October 2009

Daddy Grey

On October 31, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Daddy Grey (AKA Master Grey and Catfooted)  has been an active participant in the leather community for many years. In the course of those years, he has observed, instructed, been instructed, mentored, counseled and had need for mentoring and counsel.   He passed away Oct 11th 2009 after a long battle with cancer, in the company of [...]

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Why is submission a gift?

On October 31, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

As I participate in discussions all over the world through the Internet or face to face I consistently run into the common conception that submission is a gift that Dominant should cherish and respect.

Why?

I question this conception because I see a couple of potential pitfalls when someone makes such a statement.

The Dominance [...]
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BDSM humor of the week

On October 28, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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What are you doing during Halloween?

On October 27, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

So you have your Halloween gear ready, your mood is set to party – But we want to know more details; What are you actually going to do during Halloween? Are there any good parties out there among fellow kinksters that you are going to attend? Are you just going to stay at home and [...]

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We asked and you gave us an answer

On October 27, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

We have had two polls running on the blog for a couple of weeks. One was about erotic stories being published here and the other about what type of content we should publish.

The poll on erotic stories were a bit vague as few people voted, but it showed us a direction. It [...]

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Don’t you understand the purpose of a blog?

On October 26, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

The discussion went high in our Importance of Aftercare post and we were accused of “lying to the public” by very a limited group of people that had a BDSM political agenda. Some people don’t seem to understand the purpose of a blog – Lying is not the same as having different opinions.

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Picture of the Week

On October 25, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I have always been inspired by pony play. I like the aesthetics of it and the extensive training – And the fact that the pony isn’t allowed to speak is very enjoyable as well. The pony just has to concentrate on one thing; To becoming a pony and be attentive to the commands of the [...]

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BDSM humor of the week

On October 21, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Feminism, Conformity and BDSM

On October 20, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

I am writing to feminists – but those who are not might enjoy where this article goes…

Patriarchy – it shows in everything and everywhere, right? In any human relationship or cultural expression. Including sex. Submissive women, dominant women – all of them are really just warped by the patriarchy into re enacting and perpetuating [...]

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Keep on voting in our Polls

On October 20, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Keep on voting in our polls, one is on the right side and the other is further down in a post.

Be active and affect the content we are creating for the blog.

Happy Voting Everyone!

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To own a slave is good for your health

On October 20, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Spank Me, Please

On October 19, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Short pod documentary about Nuit Demonia in Paris – A huge BDSM and Fetish event.

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How to become a good Dominant – Weekly Podcast

On October 19, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

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Spider gags are nice

On October 17, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Spider gags are similar to ring gags, but they have a property that makes them more comfortable. The leather straps that are used to fasten the gag around the neck is attached to a metal frame that prevent them from putting pressure directly onto the cheek.

The ring makes the submissive drool and enables the [...]

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Picture of the week

On October 17, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

This one is made by Dominant Dreams. I like the attitude in the picture – Blase to a certain degree that I find fitting. But there are a also a couple of mixed up signals that causes a sort of confusion.

My experience tells me that a dominatrix wouldn’t wear ballet boots and she wouldn’t [...]

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The Sharon Warner Case or Oh The Humanity

On October 16, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

BDSM has hit the news again about a week ago, soap opera style…

Professor Sharon Warner, director of an creative writing program at a University of New Mexico, claims she was asked by her head of the English department, David Jones, to conduct a informal investigation towards another Professor Lisa [...]

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Help us out – Do you want to read Erotica here?

On October 15, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Interaction is always good – So now we want to hear your opinion on the specific subject of Erotica.

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