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What is a good submissive? Is BDSM a competition?

It’s good to get flogged in the morning

By Stoltz Sinatra On April 17, 2009 · 6776 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fislandofpain.com%2F2009%2F04%2F17%2Fits-good-to-get-flogged-in-the-morning%2FIt%27s+good+to+get+flogged+in+the+morning2009-04-17+16%3A14%3A31Stoltz+Sinatrahttp%3A%2F%2Fislandofpain.com%2F%3Fp%3D677 · In BDSM Thoughts, Dominant, Masochism, Sadism, Submissive
Cloud's back after a nice morning flogging

Cloud's back after a nice morning flogging

You wake up early in the morning and feel a new day dawning, then all of sudden you realise you need your morning fix. Maybe a cup of coffee or a cup of tea is in place or maybe a dose of endorphin induced by an early morning flogging. It surely did get my juices flowing, and I am almost certain that Cloud did so too – She grinned for quite a while in a lucid state, and when she is happy then I am happy as we are One.

Cloud has the ability to get me into a very nice domspace, and yes – She is the one that gets me there, just as I get her in subspace. Every flogging session, every punishment is done as a teamwork – Even though I am the one in charge as the dominant – And a lot of people misjudge that when they look at BDSM from an external point of view.

This morning Cloud woke up before me and thought she would suprise me by appreciating my cock while I was sleeping and without me telling her – The appreciation  is something she has been told to do for a couple of weeks. She woke up but fell asleep again before she managed to start. She was honest enough to tell me, which gave me an opportunity to flog her for her broken ambition. If one sets out to please her Master then one should stay on track with her ambition.

We had a very nice and enjoyable flogging session for almost an hour early in the morning and I would say that it is an excellent way to start a day. It gets your juices flowing in a very nice way and thinking back on it still gives me a warm, fuzzy feeling of accomplishment and fulfillment and I am very proud of Cloud and her ability to please her Master in so many ways.

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6 Responses to It’s good to get flogged in the morning

  1. Moonglow Bouchard says:
    April 18, 2009 at 18:51

    I’ve no doubt at all that she could please if she wanted.

    Good thing you give her the motivation.

    Reply
  2. Cloud says:
    April 18, 2009 at 19:06

    Soooo very happy to please you, Master, every way I can. Thank you for your lovely patience and attention and training.
    ::warm just recalling lovely flogging etc.::

    Reply
  3. LordSir Ninetails says:
    April 19, 2009 at 07:07

    Did I understand this correctly? The submissive got “rewarded” with a flogging for failing to perform a cock appreciation? Or she was happy because she was able to withstand a punishment flogging? Or she was happy because you showed you cared that she did not perform as she was supposed to? I am confused by this article.

    For instance, I use a particular instrument on my subs for actual punishment. It is only used for punishment. It will forever be associated with punishment by my subs. However, it isn’t actually the instrument that makes the punishment, it is the fact that they have let me down and are needing to be punished. It then becomes a matter of not what the instument is but what the intent is behind using this particular instrument. The energy in a punishment is very different from that of non-punishment play. It is these elements that make the instrument feared, not the instrument itself. That is why I cannot recall any of my subs wanting to dwell on their punishments publicly let alone call them “lovely”, though they have always been very appreciative of the fact that I cared enough to punish them, and have shown deeper effort in not trying to dissappoint me so, again. :) With Love in BDSM, -LordSir Ninetails

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  4. Cloud says:
    April 19, 2009 at 15:20

    :) My “failing” violated no command, no protocol, no rule, no negotiation, no request; my Master learned of the missed surprise due to a change in the room, which I explained. If this flogging was punishment, it was a play vs a real one. And one of my responsibilities as a submissive is to honestly communicate to my Master during and after play sessions my reactions; no pretending to like what I do not, no pretending to dislike what actually triggers pleasure; without honesty in this, I would NOT be pleasing him but would be betraying the trust between us.

    When my Master has REALLY punished me, there might be intense non-subspace inducing physical pain, or none, and I still thank him, but any happiness I feel is more from clearing the shame and guilt and from renewing the bonds between us. And pleasing my Master, by withstanding or enjoying or waiting or taking initiative or being honest, is the greatest pleasure possible.

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  5. LordSir Ninetails says:
    April 20, 2009 at 01:16

    Well said, Cloud. -LordSir Ninetails

    Reply
  6. sallysmith86 says:
    September 17, 2011 at 23:32

    This brought a smile to my face :) And it's been a roller coaster of a day on my end so that's truly saying a lot lol Such a beautifully true post and a concise yet heartfelt explanation by Cloud :) Thank you two for allowing others a peek into your life :) Days like today I just needed a reminder that yes, someone else out there -does- understand. :)
    Sally

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