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From the monthly archives: April 2009

Submissives without limits

On April 28, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I am active now and then in a Swedish BDSM forum and yesterday I bumped into a submissive male 19 years old, that in the forum claimed that he wanted to be kicked all over his body and that he had no limits. This guy could of course be emo playing the forum, but he is [...]

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Big BDSM party on the 16th of May

On April 23, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Attention, all you scene people in Scandinavia – SMiL is celebrating its 30thbirthday with a big birthday party on the 16th May.

SMiL is one of Denmarks biggest BDSM organisations and the party takes place in Copenhagen and there is a lot of promising events

Violet Wand show by the International Voilet Wand Guild Bondage Show [...]
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Help needed – BDSM clothing advice CONTEST

On April 22, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

The summer is approaching and so is the potential amount of BDSM parties, which all seems very interesting to attend. I am definitely not into fashion as I am a relaxed type of guy. But when it comes to attend a BDSM get together, then I am usually a bit picky. I am usually wearing [...]

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Kink.com starts The Upper Floor

On April 21, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

Kink.com – Our personal favorite kink provider on the web is going to start a new site called The Upper Floor. Kink.com will recreate an Edwardian great house where Masters and Mistresses will enjoy themselves with the slaves that will be at their disposal. It will be a 24/7 immersive environment at which is a part [...]

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Mind play on the train

On April 20, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

As I was riding the morning train to work today I observed a really interesting thing that made me think about mind play in particular.

Next to me was two guys, about 17-19 years old and apparently good friends. They where chatting about basically everything when the following conversation took place:

Guy 1:  – “Do [...]

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Is BDSM a competition?

On April 18, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

LordSir Ninetails inspired me to write this post as he became the devil’s advocate in the replies under this post, which has been highly appreciated. and being the Devils advocate is always important and welcome.

It is totally correct that there are numerous competitions [...]

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It’s good to get flogged in the morning

On April 17, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

You wake up early in the morning and feel a new day dawning, then all of sudden you realise you need your morning fix. Maybe a cup of coffee or a cup of tea is in place or maybe a dose of endorphin induced by an early morning flogging. It surely did get my juices [...]

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What is a good submissive?

On April 14, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

I talked to a friend online a couple of weeks ago and she told me that she wasn’t a good submissive due to the fact that she did things on her own in play and didn’t always listen to the person dominating her. This made me think for a while about what is a good [...]

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Does pain turn you on?

On April 12, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Lately I have been thinking thinking about pain, pain in BDSM, pain in masochism and sadism. I think this is one of the major mysteries for vanilla people when confronted with RL BDSM. “He (or she) hurts you – and you LIKE it?”or “you HURT people – and they LIKE it?” uhm… how to explain?

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