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From the monthly archives: March 2009

2009 Bondage Awards

On March 30, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

The Island of Pain blog has qualified for the second and final round in the 2009 Bondage Awards. These awards are people’s choice (voted) awards for adult kinky websites. Island of Pain is proud to be a second round contender in the category Free Websites.

Stage Two of [...]

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BDSM Discussion: Topic TBA

On March 30, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

BDSM Discussion: Topic TBA, in SecondLife on the Island of Pain.

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Second Life and BDSM

On March 25, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

We have a mix of people visiting our blog; some are into BDSM in Real Life only and some are into BDSM in Second Life only (I know that this is a provocative statement to some RL BDSM fundamentalist, but what heck, deal with it!). Some are, like us, into BDSM both in Second Life and Real Life. [...]

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Topping from the Bottom: One Submissive’s Thoughts

On March 17, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Preface: I wrote the following in considering how to discuss with a friend how in the world I could ever have offered submission, as I did, to Dominants who were not as educated or aware or BDSM savvy (to the extent that I am or was) as I was. Or how, yep, I HAVE topped [...]

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A friendly reminder – Vote for us…

On March 9, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

As mentioned in an earlier post, its time for the yearly Bondage Awards and if you like what we are doing, then feel free to give us a vote each day. As the slogan says “Have you hugged your favorite BDSM site today?”

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BDSM and Feminism – a few good reads

On March 7, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

In honor of International Women’s Day (March 8th), a few links on feminism and BDSM. Comments are mine (Cloud’s), as are any errors in summarizing the content; such are not intentional:

BDSM and Feminism: An Insider’s View by Tammy Jo Eckhart. The opinion of one heterosexual, feminist, dominant woman, [...]

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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 4: Tools for Roleplaying

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Combining our tools for good RP. Emotes, in-world furniture, toys, environment, power, control, understanding others. Interpreting profiles. Understanding RP etiquette. Reading and understanding sim rules.

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: Force Silverspar. FREE, tips encouraged.

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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 3: Roleplaying cont.

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

More on Roleplaying. Using the environment, Godmoding, Metagaming, grammar, spelling and punctuation,Third/First person. Differences between living out short scenes and long story lines. Language issues. Setting up a scene. Generic language V role specific language.

 

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: Force Silverspar. FREE, tips encouraged. 
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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 2: Roleplaying

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Roleplaying. What is roleplaying. What is sexual roleplaying (cybering). Identifying and creating the role you want to play. Basic rules of roleplaying with other people. Safety including emotional risks. IC & OOC. Recap of lesson 1 and demonstration of a short interaction.

Location: Island of Pain, meetin in Square; please try to be prompt. Instructor: [...]
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R.O.P.E. Roleplaying class session 1: Emoting

On March 6, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

An introduction to ROlePlay for Everyone: Session 1: Emoting. What is emoting. Using the prompt. Extending emoting into possessive pronouns and adding speech. Using descriptions. Using adjectives. Using your senses. Actions, thoughts and feelings. Pros and cons of emoting HUDs, cue cards and pre-written text. Lots of interaction and practice from attendees.

Location: Island of [...]

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In For Life 2 has opened!

On March 6, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

We have been busy bees over the last couple of weeks as our prison sim In For Life has expanded into an additional sim.

There was a need for more cells, but also for expanded role play, and the expansion to the existing prison is a darker addition to the storyline, a place where [...]

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Vote for us!

On March 5, 2009 By Stoltz Sinatra

We are participating in the Bondage Awards voting which a yearly award given to people and sites within BDSM culture. If you like what we are doing, then please head over to the Bondage Awards site and cast your vote. We are participating in the category “Best [...]

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BDSM Discussion: Is public BDSM ok? Is adult behavior ok in pub

On March 3, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Discussion of BDSM topic Is public BDSM ok? Is adult behavior ok in public? on the Island of Pain.

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Discussion: Humiliation Play

On March 1, 2009 By Cloud Bracken

Discussion of Humiliation Play. In SecondLife, in the Island http://slurl.com/secondlife/Island%20of%20Pain/148/139/27 of Pain Square

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