What to do when everything seems stuck

Challenging one self and each other as a BDSM-couple can at times be hard. The work I and Herrn are doing are at the moment testing our patience and trust. We have from the get go been determined to go deep and serious to get the greater experience and in a way for me the only true form of BDSM (do not want to say that any other kind is bad for others but for me). For some the sex part of BDSM is the essential for us the journey into our minds and the understanding of one self and each other is the big part. We do play at times but at this point it is getting more serious as we are reaching a big barrier, mostly within me but I would say that this obstacle have become a big anti climax and therefor a barrier to my Herrn.

As we are not reaching over the stop we have reached we are taking a tow on each other as we feel that the trust is lacking to go forward. I would say that it is most certainly is not lacking but we are a bit anxious as we do not know how to push forward.