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From the monthly archives: October 2008

What do you have in your bag of toys?

On October 31, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

Curiosity struck me today as I was doing a mental shopping list that I’m going for while being in London. I have a fairly modest “toolbox” of BDSM equipment that I find useful:

1 Posture collar 1 blindfold 1 paddle 1 pair of handcuffs (without pink frilly fabric!) 1 whip with rubber flails – Stingy! [...]
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Flogging revisited

On October 31, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

There is something aesthetically pleasing in watching a dominant being able to handle a flogger of their choice as it was a natural extension of their hand. To see them swing the flogger in different figures, letting it dance on different parts of the submissive’s body with both ease and grace. It is something that [...]

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Growing into things – A symbiotic dance

On October 30, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

I would like to continue on AllSmiles post about how important the pairing up is. That is one of the most important things to me as a dominant. To me BDSM is something that is connected to close feelings and intimacy. This is where the trust originates from and I would actually say that it’s [...]

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I will go all switch on you now

On October 28, 2008 By AllSmiles

Or, could one be submissive when you are a dominant?

The answer is of cause yes, since I am just that. There is of cause a bigger picture in which the question is what ever I am dominant or a sadist or both, or if I am just a bitch I do not know if [...]

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Island of Pain – A new vision

On October 28, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

My real life changes have affected how I am envisioning the future for our second life BDSM community Island of Pain.

IoP was never meant to be a commercial establishment – The idea has always been to run a self sufficient community where people with a common interest in BDSM could meet up to exchange knowledge, views [...]

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Electroplay research

On October 28, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

A good Master has a responsibility towards his submissive, to continuously develop his knowledge. By doing this he will be able to lead his sub into new areas that haven’t been investigated.

I’m honoring this by reading up on electroplay a bit more than I have done before and I am not sure that AllSmiles agree with me when [...]

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Streets of London

On October 26, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

I’m going on a small trip to London in a couple of days with a certain “Fröken”. Before I travel somewhere I always check up on the local BDSM shops in the neighbourhood and London have a couple of nice ones of course.

There is a BDSM gathering every month that seems worth visiting and [...]

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The all mighty power of presenting one self

On October 22, 2008 By AllSmiles

SO… I have been asked to put my word in on being a switch. But I won’t *being a switch and all *. I will, but not now. For today I will just try to make an entrance.

How not to do that but through this lyrics:

I am the centre of this universe
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Presenting AllSmiles…

On October 22, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

Writing is back on track again as things in RL is getting sorted out. I would like to start with presenting AllSmiles, my wonderful and lovely submissive that has been my guiding light and love through a lot of rough and tough decisions.

She will soon start writing about things that are connected to BDSM and other [...]

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A focusing light…

On October 20, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

When you are in something that feels like your darkest hours, then it is sometimes hard to see things around you. It’s hard to see that flickering light in the middle of the storm looking for your attention – A flickering light that is trying to tell you “Here I am….Trust me”.

All of a [...]

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