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From the monthly archives: May 2008

The Best BDSM scene competition was a success

On May 19, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

The BDSM scene competition on the Island of Pain in Second Life went down yesterday and we had two really wonderful couples competing against each other in doing the best BDSM scene. Let me tell you, they made the judges work a hard cookie to crack.

People really enjoyed to be able to watch other people [...]

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The Construction of a BDSM scene – Preparations

On May 13, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

I will do a series of posts in an effort to break down the basics of a BDSM scene. These posts will reflect the dominant role in a BDSM scene and how the scene is constructed around that role.

The first part of a scene is the preparation.

One step that is usually mentioned is boundary [...]

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An interesting toy – Nipple Cylinders

On May 10, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

Suction play is very interesting and the effect of it is a heightened sensation that can be used in a very efficient way to create good or even better orgasms. These nipple cylinders together with a handpump is an interesting option and I like the visuals of a pair of “poke you in the [...]

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Things that make me laugh

On May 9, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

This is both a positive and a negative post about BDSM in the press, and I’m not sure if I should laugh or cry when I see things like this happening in our world, a place which has accepted a lot of things that wouldn’t have been accepted 50 years ago.

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Diana Hunter readings

On May 8, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

Diana Hunter reads from her BDSM books on the Island of Pain.

Event starts in the cave at 3:00pm SLT (23:00 GMT)

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Diana Hunter readings

On May 8, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

Diana Hunter reads from her BDSM books on the Island of Pain.

Event starts in the cave at 3:00pm SLT (23:00 GMT)

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BDSM toys can be expensive – Or not?

On May 8, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

BDSM toys can be really expensive and some expensive toys out there are really flimsy and cheap in quality compared to how much you pay for them.

There are also some drawbacks when you buy toys from an ordinary sex toy webshop:

You are unable to feel the quality by holding/touching the product you are [...]
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The difference between BDSM and abuse

On May 7, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

I had an interesting discussion with a person the other day where I tried to explain the difference between abuse and BDSM. The hard part with a discussion like that is that I am into BDSM and it becomes natural to me to see a distinct difference between the two. That also makes it a [...]

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Our polls are up

On May 6, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

An opinion is always interesting, many opinions shows where the wind is blowing.

Our polls are up and we will use them frequently to capture different points of view on a general level. This is our way of putting our finger up in the air in order to see where the wind is blowing.

Your ablility to voice [...]

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New functionality on the blog

On May 6, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

Change is always necessary. So new functionality is available at your hands and first of is the rating system for each post.

We want your feedback on how we are doing, so just drag your mouse across the stars when you have read one our our post and give us the grade you think we [...]

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An interesting toy

On May 5, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

The psychological element is important within BDSM and a lot of things can be done with ordinary everyday things you have around you. A hairbrush can be used for spanking, both sides of it of course. A clothing pin can be used as a rudimentry nipple clamp. Most of these things inflict a fair level [...]

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Finally some good things in the media about BDSM

On May 3, 2008 By Stoltz Sinatra

As a try to fulfill Cloud’s request about finding some good and positive news about BDSM. My prior posts around BDSM in the media have often been concentrated around the narrow-minded view that I percieve to be the most common one in the media. Well, here you go Cloud – I’ve decided to break my [...]

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