It has been a stressful day. Not even half the things on my list got done today. Rushing from place to place to get things I needed, buying this and that.
Time limits and deadlines can be a nuisance, with a head full of cotton, they make your life a living hell. At least they make my life troublesome.
Everything was almost finished by the time i gave up for the day, better start a bit earlier the next day then risk messing everything up due to slow reactions and bad judgement late in the evening.
Very tired but not quite ready for bed, I sat down to spend some time in Second Life. Bad idea, very bad idea.
Can we say explosion?? I was ready to rip Masters head off and I did try!!!!
It had all started Wednesday evening with Master buying some new ballet boots for my avatar. They didn´t really fit but he promised to help me with that. As I rushed away to pick up some pizza for dinner he did make both my new outfit and new boots fit. I didn’t log on more that day so when i finally did log on it all came as a shock. It didn´t look anything like the avatar I had left the night before!
Instead of making the boots bigger he had made my legs thinner, and not just a bit, half my bloody legs were gone! It wasn´t me any more. All the time I had spent to make my avatar look just the way I wanted it to look was wasted, all for a fucking pair of boots. I wasn´t allowed to remove the boots, nor was I allowed to make the legs thicker. I just couldn´t handle it, and it was all Masters fault. I tried to walk around for a bit but the sight made me sick. I logged off and was about to leave the room when Master told me not to. I kept yelling at him, blaming him for every little thing I could think of. I was told not to complain or whine about it, and that I wasn´t respecting the collar around my neck. I just didn´t care. He didn´t care about me or the things that belonged to me so why should I?? I was crying my eyes out and was very unhappy. Continued…
The grapewine that is being poured over us through the tabloids have brought us this little story.
Sarah Silverman has admitted her new boyfriend spanks her.
The comic, who announced that she is dating Family Guy writer/producer Alec Sulkin, revealed on The Late Show with David Letterman that her mother knows about her fetish because she saw the hand-shaped bruises.
The 39-year-old said: “You know what’s great about parents is that when you get famous you can do anything you want and they can’t do anything about it.”
Silverman said that while she and her mother were in the bathroom, her mother yelled in horror, “Sarah, what is that?”
The actress added: “I looked in the mirror behind me and noticed that on my tushie is a bruise the exact same shape of a hand. And I was able to just say, I’m sleeping with a man that spanks me.”
Diana Hunter who is a close friend of the Island of Pain blog and Island of Pain in Second Life is going to do a reading in Second Life on the 10th of February at 3 PM Second Life time ( 6 PM New York, 23:00 GMT, 00:00 CET) on the Island of Pain in Second Life.
All the money that she recieves during the reading will be handed over to the Red Cross to support their work in Haiti.
Diana is a well known BDSM erotica writer and has done readings on the Island of Pain before that have been highly appreciated by her audience. She writes engaging stories that, in an immersive manner, reflects the inner feelings of her characters that participates in the play that unfolds in front of the eyes of the reader. Diana usually gives samples of new stories and material that she is working on as well as an insight into the life of an author. She is held in high regards by the BDSM community in Second Life and is one of its respected contributors.
Men, women, transgender, heterosexuals, gays, bisexuals. Every ethnicity. White-collar and blue-collar. It’s really very, very diverse — though we do have an unusually high percentage of lawyers. I don’t know why.
— Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, discussing the people who attend erotic BDSM — bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism — parties.
We have written about Pandora’s Chest before – A piece of BDSM equipment that is nicely hidden in your home until it is needed for the “right” purposes.
BedS & More does a really nice bed that has the same characteristics, it looks like a nice bed – Until you need it for more devious purposes. A couple of changes and it will be the centerpiece of your very own private dungeon. If you are already looking for a new bed then this might be the right alternative for you. I don’t know if it’s comfy to sleep in, but does it really matter?
This is what they write about their bed:
In a few minutes the bed can be configured into many different arrangements by changing adjustable parts and removable sections.
Sections of the bed are adjustable for more alternatives and don’t forget the old fashioned pillory! It’s easy to use any of the available accessories we provide. Included with the ‘Fantasy Bed’ you’ll get cuffs for ankles, wrists and thighs; chains that fix to multiple positions and a swing.
Domestic dominance may sound like something abusive, but it isn’t – It’s a part of a 24/7 based D/s relationship. Imagine being under a strict protocol when doing household chores, following a tight schedule when it comes to a lot of things you do around the house and at the end of the day you might get the release you have longed for all day long. All your efforts will be rewarded and serving someone will be very gratifying.
This picture is a symbolic representation and the female submissive seems to be deep down into her own thoughts. Maybe she is swirling around in subspace while she is feeling the satisfaction of pleasing her Dominant as she sits in silence feeling the beats of her submissive heart. She is waiting for the release that her Dominant might give her, she is waiting patiently for her efforts to be recognised.
Paul Pickthorne, the kinkster of the neighbourhood, rents a home in Bethesda and says he is a practitioner of “BDSM. He says he has hosted four parties attended by dozens of people since the summer.
Montgomery County zoning inspector Frank De Lange issued Pickthorne a warning last week. He says that because he accepted money from attendees to help cover costs, the parties constitute a commercial enterprise.
Police also looked into the parties after receiving complaints from neighbours but found nothing illegal about them.
The story has some interesting twists to it as well. The guest that were attending the parties often used the parking lot a local church and Paul donated the profits to charity. The newspapers love this stuff – Kinksters are of course always different compared to everyone else and this is something that is always highlighted in the papers. Who wouldn’t use the closest parking lot? Most people would is my guess, but more interesting when kinksters do it – Sinners that are using the parking lot of a church, you can almost hear Satan laugh from the depths underneath the neighbourhood – According to the newspapers.
And of course, adding to the sensational value of the story you have the disgruntled neighbours being afraid that the value of their properties will spiral down due to the indecent activities taking place in the otherwise so calm and quiet area. Can you hear Satan laugh again?
All this is a mixture that media will have a sensation frenzy over – Gulping it all down with some, according to themselves, facts that they have collected.
Do I sound critical? Well, maybe it is because I am.
I have been told to sit here and write, to clear my head.. But I´m not even sure where the *biiiiip* my head is at the moment. So just what am I supposed to write? Should I write that I´m staring at the screen seeing nothing? Should I write that I don’t even know what is up and what is down at the moment??
Write, clear your head, process what happened. Those were Master’s words. So here I am, writing.
I would much rather just go back to bed, hide my head under my pillow and and not come out until the weekend has passed. That’s not an option, but is seems like a good idea right now. I just want to hide, not to be seen, or heard. I just want to be left alone.. I want to disappear into my own little dream world. A world where everything is just the way I want it to be. A world where no one can tell me what to do. A world where I can´t fail, can´t let anyone down. A world where I can be just as perfect as I want or hope to be.
Such a world can only exist in my mind, not to be talked about. A world that no one else can ever enter even if they wanted to. Continued…
Youme is a game that is in its early stages, it isn’t ready yet as the beta tests will start mid 2010. It could be explained easily as Sims on steroids – But that isn’t exactly the whole truth. Youme is made up by characters that actually are real life people. They will carry out everything you tell them to do in real life as a part of the game.
This is what they write on their website:
Youme offers subscribers the ability to control real world characters. Each character is a person somewhere else in the world, the user gets to pick their character based on several demographic fields such as age, location, sex, height, weight and so fourth.
Users who subscribe to control a character are known as a ‘you’, whilst the users being controlled are named a ‘me’.
Beta launching mid 2010, so which are you?
Does this sound suspiciously like cyber D/s and I wonder if the company has this in mind or if they are totally unaware of the similarities?
I suspect that they are as the name of the company is DomsNetwork, not just a coincidence in my opinion. We’ll see how this develops, the concept sounds interesting as they are blurring the boundaries between a game and real life. If we look at the D/s aspect then there isn’t anything new. Cyber D/s is not an uncommon activity among people that are into BDSM. If it turns out that Youme works like an online dating service with some gaming frills for people into cyber D/s, then then it’s just a money making scheme.
Also keep in mind that their website contains no information about the company at all, which is also a bit suspicious to me and tend to make me think along the lines of a prank or a scam.
Animal Play or Pet Play can be a very interesting part of BDSM. It gives you the opportunity to enter a different mindset, to enter the head space of an animal of your choice.
Verbal communication has to be left behind and body language has to be changed in order to reflect the animal you have chosen to be.
We have written before about Animal Play, mostly Pony Play (a personal preference of mine), but there are lots of other animals you can choose from – Puppies, cats or why not a pig or a cow?
There is a group of people that organises a human petting zoo now and then. It seems to be a lovely way to get together and do some animal play. There is a wonderful article about it, Animal Attractions: A Trip to a Human Petting Zoo.
Head over there and read it, you will not be disappointed and it sure made me laugh at times.
The first Emmanuelle film was the the French Emmanuelle with the Dutch actress Sylvia Kristel in the title role. She came to be the actress best identified with the role. This film pushed the boundaries of what was acceptable on screen, with sex scenes, skinny-dipping, masturbation, the “Mile High Club”, rape, and a scene in which a dancer lights a cigarette and puffs it with her vagina. This film was created and directed by the French director Just Jaeckin.
Unlike many films that tried to avoid an X-rating, the first Emmanuelle film embraced it, and became a success with a viewing audience estimated at 300 million.
Several sequels starring Kristel followed, beginning with Emmanuelle 2 known as Emmanuelle: The Joys of a Woman in its US release, and also Emmanuelle l’antivierge in some European press materials, including the soundtrack LP and CD.
Kristel stepped away from the role in the 1980s, yielding to younger actresses, but returned for the seventh feature film and continued to make cameo appearances as an older Emmanuelle in cable TV films. She also appeared in films that capitalized on or parodied her Emmanuelle image, such as the American sex comedy Private Lessons.
After the initial success a series of different versions were created as a try to revoke the magic. The clip below is from Emanuelle in Venice, a TV-production from 1993. Remember that the Emanuelle movies put a lot of kinks into the hands of a mainstream audience. Even though the production from 1993 has a bit of cheesy music, it’s still highly erotic and who doesn’t enjoy a good spanking of a french maid?
The Emanuelle movies are considered by me as mandatory if you want to dig deep into the history of erotica and depicted BDSM.
Ykotake is the administrator and creator of NawaPedia and he has created a site which holds a potential to become something really good. NawaPedia is a wikipedia for fans of Japanese rope bondage and right now there isn’t very much information, but some of it has a good depth. There is an interesting directory of famous names within the rope bondage scene and it can definitely work as a starting point for more in depth investigations of the works of these Masters.
Keep in mind that this site is just a few months old, so why not help Ykotake out and supply him with more information. There is a lot of people out there that could benefit from a site like this.
Some of you might know that we have a strong presence in Second Life as a part of our ambition to spread knowledge about BDSM as an expression and lifestyle. We have a very vibrant community of kinksters in SL who frequently visit our sim, Island of Pain.
I got interviewed a couple of days ago by the best blog in Sweden that covers everything that happens in SL, head over to Tinas Universum to read about what we do in SL and be sure to check out the other stuff as well on Tinas blog. The interview is in Swedish, but the site has a google translate widget on the top left side of the screen that will be useful if you speak a foreign language.
Giving a blow job might be in a submissives chores in order to give pleasure to their Dominant. Some submissive might have a really hard time to swallow the cum. Some claims that it is an acquired taste and I tend to agree with that as you can learn to swallow through training.
I would recommend anyone that is doing training in this area to take a look at the site Don’t Spit, Swallow Cum website. They have a lot of useful tips on how to make it easier to swallow, how to affect the texture and the taste of the cum. I would even say that it is required reading for ever aspiring cum slut.
Have you ever noticed how fascinating a foot can be??
I found out just how fascinating my right foot was this last Friday.
Right now you´re probably thinking that I´m nuts right? Well, I better start from the beginning. Can´t have everyone running around thinking that I´m nuts now can we?
Master did one of his radio show the other night and I got to be with him. I got to sit by his feet the entire time *yay* It didn´t take long before I started to head for subspace. The soothing sound of Masters voice and him grabbing hold of my hair during the short breaks to play music pushed me further and faster.
Time just flew by.
About 20 minutes into the show I really wasn´t there any more. Ask me today what Master said or did during that hour and I couldn´t tell you even if my life depended on it. I´m not sure how far into the show we were when I caught movement out of the corner of my right eye.
Guess what? The movement I had seen was my own foot. I wasn´t aware that I had moved it, nor was I thinking straight. The foot was right then and there the most fascinating thing in the world. I must have starred at it for at least 5 minutes.
I have now thought about this foot for three days, what happened?
My experiences of subspace aren´t that many, at least not that far into it that I’ve lost my ability to keep track of reality. This type of thing has never happened to me before. Will it happen again? I guess I´ll find out as we go along, because I have no idea.
Sometimes I am glad that I wasn’t old enough to be subjected to these videos when they were around. They would probably leave a weird feeling if I saw them then, because that is how they make me feel today. Thanks to Violet Blue for pulling these to my attention.
These videos might not be on the BDSM side of things, but they are a weird legacy of the human sexuality and education.
I would most certainly get some emotional scars if my mother ever had this conversation with me. The video below is even worse, just listen to the speaker – That just send chills down my spine “One can never be sure when the homosexual is around”. That’s just too much…
Pet play is something we have written about before – And this picture goes along with that. There is something that turns me on when I see a woman laying on the floor, licking milk from a bowl – Add purrs to that and I am done. She crawls across the floor, elegantly and smoothly, while she looks up at you with piercing eyes. You have tamed her, you know it and she knows it – But she can bite you at any time. She will scratch and scar you if you control her with a firm hand.
She will always look at you with suspicion, waiting for the right moment to turn against you. But for now she will lick her milk still looking at you and it is as if she is trying to say “You have defeated me now, but watch it – I will get you in the as I am a wild creature…”
I’m always a little bit mixed when it comes to BDSM educational stuff on the web – Mostly because every educational resource claims that “this is the best way to do it”. I usually find myself to be critical towards BDSM 101 information that is brushing through safety issues and try fit it all in a very short format.
This is an effect of the web format itself and how people digest information on the web, we want to be able to access the information quickly and we want to digest it equally quick – People usually don’t want to read long novels or watch lengthy educational videos filled with a lot of facts.
We, who write stuff on blogs or make videos for YouTube, adopt very quickly to this very specific media consumer behaviour and create material that is supposed to digested quickly.
Now comes the critical question: Can BDSM safety information be presented in this type of short and easily digested format?
I wouldn’t be able to present the pitfalls of BDSM and safety issues in 8 minutes with a certain level of responsibility and here is the next thing: As a provider of BDSM educational information you have to take on a great deal of responsibility in relation to the information that you put on the web. If you spread the wrong information or if you are trying to minimize the potential danger when explaining certain activities – Then you become a danger yourself. Continued…
One part of the Island of Pain is devoted to the variety of expression within the world of BDSM. The other part of the IoP blog is reports to and from the Second Life place Island of Pain, which is the focal point for a large and vibrant BDSM community. The blog acts as a bridge between online and RL worlds and is set out to help people who want to cross between them. The people that run the blog are experienced lifestylers and enjoy knowledge sharing. Comments and questions are welcome unless a thread is locked, and you can also contact us via BDSMquestion@gmail.com
It has been a stressful day. Not even half the things on my list got done today. Rushing from place to place to get things I needed, buying this and that.
The grapewine that is being poured over us through the tabloids have brought us this little story.
Men, women, transgender, heterosexuals, gays, bisexuals. Every ethnicity. White-collar and blue-collar. It’s really very, very diverse — though we do have an unusually high percentage of lawyers. I don’t know why. 
Domestic dominance may sound like something abusive, but it isn’t – It’s a part of a 24/7 based D/s relationship. Imagine being under a strict protocol when doing household chores, following a tight schedule when it comes to a lot of things you do around the house and at the end of the day you might get the release you have longed for all day long. All your efforts will be rewarded and serving someone will be very gratifying.
Paul Pickthorne, the kinkster of the neighbourhood, rents a home in Bethesda and says he is a practitioner of “BDSM. He says he has hosted four parties attended by dozens of people since the summer.
We did a minor test last Sunday and found out that more people prefer Sundays as a listening day.
Animal Play or Pet Play can be a very interesting part of BDSM. It gives you the opportunity to enter a different mindset, to enter the head space of an animal of your choice.
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